Everything Is Horrible and Wonderful: A Tragicomic Memoir of Genius, Heroin, Love, and Loss (Hardcover)

Everything Is Horrible and Wonderful: A Tragicomic Memoir of Genius, Heroin, Love, and Loss By Stephanie Wittels Wachs, Aziz Ansari (Foreword by) Cover Image
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In the style of The Recovering, and Educated: A Memoir, Stephanie Wittels Wachs delves into the dark world of loss, grief, and addiction in a heartbreaking but hopeful memoir

With a captivating foreward by Aziz Ansari

One phone call was all it took to change Stephanie Wittels Wachs's life forever... Her younger brother, Harris, a comedy star known for his work on Parks and Recreation and for introducing the world to the art of the humblebrag, died of a heroin overdose. How do you make sense of such a tragic end to a life full of so much hilarious brilliance?

In beautiful, unsentimental, and surprisingly funny prose, Stephanie Wittels Wachs alternates between her brother's struggle with addiction, which she learned about three days before her wedding, and the first year after his death, in all its emotional devastation. This compelling portrait of a comedic genius and a profound exploration of the love between siblings is A Year of Magical Thinking for a new generation of readers.

Everything is Horrible and Wonderful will make you laugh, cry, and wonder if that possum on the fence is really your brother's spirit animal.

A touching memoir that delves into addiction, grief recovery, and healing after loss, this poignant story ultimately showcases the enduring love we have for those we lose too soon.

About the Author

Stephanie Wittels Wachs is a writer whose work has been featured on Vox, Longform, Huffington Post, Fatherly, Mamamia, Babble, and Medium. Other significant roles include mother, theatre artist, educator, and voice actor. She graduated from New York University's Tisch School of the Arts and went on to receive her Master’s from University of Houston School of Theatre and Dance. She is co-founder of Rec Room Arts, a non-profit arts organization committed to developing innovative work across disciplines. Find her comedic musings on parenting (and life) on her weekly podcast, “Hands Off Parents." She lives in Houston, Texas with her family.

Praise For…

"Comedy whiz Harris Wittels, a producer on Parks and Rec, had it all - until he OD’d on heroin at 30 in 2015. His sister, a drama teacher, poignantly describes his sobriety and relapses and her family’s painful year after his death. But her beloved brother’s wry jokes add leavening." — People

"Beautiful, funny, and epically poignant." — Sarah Silverman

"Harrowing, heartbreaking, and cathartic memoir...Wachs writes with immense love, humor, and humanity...Everything about this book is horrible, wonderful, timely, and not to be missed." — Booklist

"In unflinching detail and with remarkable openness, Wachs describes the ugly and complicated nature of mourning someone who was not only a brother and best friend, but also an addict, a public figure, and a comedic genius whose life was cut off at the very cusp of success...a powerful debut that will resonate especially with readers who have loved and lost someone to addiction." — Kirkus Reviews

"Unsentimental and at times even funny, Everything is Horrible and Wonderful is Wachs' journey to make sense of the senseless, to move from grief to hope, and to let humor light the way." — Bustle

"Human and heartbreaking, this sister’s story of living with and losing a brother to addiction is a doozy. A great read and an intimate and illuminating account of an addict’s impact on a family." — Bill Clegg, author of Portrait of an Addict as a Young Man and Did You Ever Have a Family

"Every minute more of us know the unique pain of helplessly watching someone we care about descend into the pit of addiction. Stephanie Wittels Wachs has been there, and she emerges with her wit, wisdom, and spirit intact. This remarkable and movingly told story will break and mend hearts." — David Sheff, author of Beautiful Boy and Clean

"Brutally honest and honestly beautiful, Everything Is Horrible and Wonderful is so much more than a story of how addiction can tear a family apart; it’s a magnificent tribute to a brother and to the perfectly imperfect family that we all have. The clarity with which Stephanie Wittels Wachs describes addiction, death and its aftermath comes through on every page…she lays bare the ugliest truths without demonizing the destructive behavior of an addict. Threaded through with the fiercest unconditional love, this is an absolutely gorgeous book." — Matt Logelin, author of Two Kisses for Maddy

"Stephanie Wittels Wachs is honest, funny, moving, and so likable. She shows us the messy truth about losing someone you love - that there is no map for its tremendous pain and unexpected moments of joy." — Kerry Cohen, author of Loose Girl and Lush

"As described in this touching memoir, grief is a familial phantom limb constantly tapping the shoulders of the survivors…a story ultimately about renewal and hope." — Houston Chronicle

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Product Details
ISBN: 9781492664109
ISBN-10: 1492664103
Publisher: Sourcebooks
Publication Date: February 26th, 2018
Pages: 288
Language: English